11 Dec2020
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In order to understand bravery, one must understand its opposite – fear. Fear is an enemy, and a cruel one at that. Most people don’t like to get to know their enemies but I am of the opinion that one must not only know their enemies, but it is infinitely beneficial to understand them.
There are lots of quotes about overcoming fear they exist because there is usually some truth to them. But they are not needed here. The most profound thing learned about fear is that there is no escaping it. It is an enemy you will battle till death.
But knowing that fear is inescapable is exactly why bravery is of utmost necessity in life. Fear is the thing that paralyzes, while bravery is the thing that frees. Fear is the thing that chooses mediocre, while bravery is the thing that takes the risk of chance, a chance that could bring greatness or defeat. Fear always leads to regret, while bravery leads to knowing.
Bravery requires endurance because it requires persistence and perseverance – that thing that keeps you going after the proverbial fat lady has sung and the show is over. Bravery requires courage because first you must make the choice to be at the show, and then to get up and sing too.
When I think of all the people in my lifetime who have been brave and who continue to be brave, I realize that bravery means many different things in different situations.
– Sometimes bravery means being the person who stands out in the crowd, who speaks up, and who must be a voice, either the voice they need to hear, or a voice for others.
– Sometimes bravery means having the prudence to pause, to sit in silence, and to be okay.
– Sometimes bravery means putting up the fight of your life, and fighting till the very end.
– Sometimes bravery means raising up that white flag, accepting defeat, and finding the will to move on from that defeat without resentment, and with wisdom.
– Sometimes bravery means to search for the things and the people who make you feel alive; to take risks, to be a long shot, and an outlier.
– Sometimes bravery means to be grateful and content and satisfied with the state of your present.
But bravery, whatever it is some of the time, to be authentic, to be able to endure, to be an act of courage, must also be an act of love. Whether of a thing or of a person or of a place, bravery must be manifested through love. And to be brave you must accept that the great love of anything may result in heartbreak and pain and disappointment. To be brave, you must be willing to risk the possibility of a terrifying ending. To brave is to be alive and to live in such a way that the world knows you are afraid but you love, more than you fear. TC mark