1.To Begin Again: The Journey Toward Comfort, Strength, and Faith in Difficult Times
by Naomi Levy
This book became a bible of sorts for both my mother and me. When Rabbi Levy was a teenager, her father was murdered. Her spiritual journey from that point on has become bread for our own, whether it is illness, loss or any other difficulty we face. She really does reach out to us with comfort, faith and strength through this book
2. Learning to Fall: The Blessings of an Imperfect Life
by Philip Simmons
Poetic and practical, this journal of a man dealing with the ever increasing limitations of Lou Gehrig’s disease is a road map for our own spiritual and emotional freedom.
3. Close to the Bone: Life Threatening Illness and the Search for Meaning
by Jean Shinoda Bolen, M.D.
Enlightenment is power. The compassionate yet straightforward approach to illness (especially cancer) by this Jungian psychologist is both enlightening and powerful.
4. Healing Through the Dark Emotions: The Wisdom of Grief, Fear, and Despair
by Miriam Greenspan
Whether patient or caregiver, the “dark emotions” are huge part of any illness. We’re often overwhelmed by and ashamed of those feelings. Miriam Greenspan helps us use the dark to see the light.
5. God Is at Eye Level: Photography as a Healing Art
by Jan Phillips
You may be surprised to see this book on this list, but as a tool for the despairing soul, the act and art of photography, and the way Jan teaches us to use it, can be powerfully healing.
6. Spirituality, Suffering, and Illness: Ideas for Healing
by Lorraine M. Wright, Ph.D.
This holistic assessment tool is an in-depth, step-by-step, practical guide to starting conversations about spirituality with patients and their families in order to encourage healing and alleviate (or diminish) emotional, physical, and/or spiritual suffering.
7. A Year to Live: How to Live This Year as If It Were Your Last
by Stephen Levine
Helps you to find or re-establish your commitment to life, even in the midst of turmoil, illness or dying.
8. Man’s Search For Meaning
by Viktor E. Frankl
My sister’s template for how she lived the last years of her young life was taken from this book. Although it’s the story of Frankl’s years in a Nazi concentration camp, it’s ultimately about finding your power in a situation where you appear to be powerless. A mighty metaphor for those dealing with a life-threatening illness.
9. The Don Quixote Point of View: Realizing Impossible Dreams
Essential Reading for the Spiritual Explorer
10. When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
by Pema Chodron
Really helps you to re-frame your experience. Lots of food for thought; a very compassionate book. A Buddhist perspective on coping that’s approachable from any spiritual background.
11. Comfortable with Uncertainty: 108 Teachings on Cultivating Fearlessness and Compassion
by Pema Chodron
If there are two must-haves when facing serious illness, they’re fearlessness and compassion. Pema gets you there with 108 short lessons that you can read again and again, in any order. A book to carry around in your handbag!